How Being in the “Love Mode” Unlocks Your True Desires (And How Ocean Energy Wellness Can Help)
You are always manifesting. Whether you realize it or not, your energy and mindset are constantly shaping your reality.
But here’s the key: If you want to call in more of what you truly desire, it correlates to your nervous system.
In particular, the state of your parasympathetic nervous system, often called "love mode," plays a huge role in how open and aligned you are to receive your desires.
The Role of the Parasympathetic State in Manifesting Your Desires
The parasympathetic nervous system is often referred to as the "rest and digest" system, but it’s much more than just a calming mechanism for your body. It’s a gateway to deeper levels of awareness, intuition, and alignment. When activated, this state brings you into a profound sense of relaxation, clarity, and connection with your inner self.
In this state, your energy is expansive, open, and receptive. It’s when you feel most at ease, when your body is relaxed and your mind quiet. This heart-centered space—often called “love mode: - allows you to be fully present, which is essential for manifesting your deisres.
Here’s why: Manifestation isn’t just about focusing on your desires with intense thought or action. It’s about aligning with them energetically and you can only do this effectively when in a statse that supports clarity, trust and openness.
The parasympathetic state lets you access higher intuition and inner wisdom, helping you make decisions from a place of deep self-trust rather than fear or anxiety. When your nervous system is in balance, you feel safe enough to receive your desires without resistance or doubt. You can release any limiting beliefs or fear-based thought that might be blocking your flow.
The Power of Love Mode and the Nervous System:
Recently, I watched an insightful video featuring Mel Robbins and Dr. Jim Doty, a renowned neurosurgeon, where they explored how being in the parasympathetic nervous system, or "love mode" as they called it, opens us up to more of what we truly desire.
Most of us are living with and operating from the sympathetic side, which is associated with the fight or flight and what they called fear mode in the video. This contracts your energy. It leaves you closed off from new possibilities.
If you’re interested in hearing more about this powerful concept, you can watch the full video here. It beautifully breaks down how our nervous system affects our ability to manifest and how we can shift into this heart-centered space.
This concept resonates deeply with the work we do at Ocean Energy Wellness - helping you enter the parasympathetic state so you can relax, recharge and reconnect with your true self. In this space of relaxation, you can access clarity, intuition and deeper insights, making it easier to move through life with alignment and flow.
How Ocean Energy Wellness Helps You Activate This State
At Ocean Energy Wellness, I help guide you into the parasympathetic state through practices that activate both your energetic alignment and flow.
The ocean guides—such as the sea turtle, dolphin, and whale—serve as powerful symbols of intuition, wisdom, and peace. Working with these guides helps you relax and access that heart-centered space, where healing and clarity naturally unfold.
The ocean's rhythmic energy has a unique ability to soothe and activate the parasympathetic nervous system. Its ebb and flow encourage deep relaxation, allowing you to tap into your own inner rhythm.
This is why the practices at Ocean Energy Wellness—whether it’s a guided journey, energy healing, or using my Ocean Energy Healing Cards—support your shift into this vital state.
Manifesting from a Place of Heart-Centered Alignment
When you’re in the parasympathetic state, your body and mind become open and aligned with your true desires. This clarity allows you to make decisions from a place of trust, letting go of overthinking and allowing your intuition to guide you.
The more you connect with this heart-centered space, the easier it becomes to manifest your desires.
Through the tools and practices at Ocean Energy Wellness, you can align your energy and tap into the flow of life. My work helps you trust yourself, make inspired decisions and take aligned action—making it easier to create the life you desire.
Practical Tips to Access the Parasympathetic State
Here are a few simple practices you can begin using today to activate the parasympathetic state and step into love mode:
Quick Breathwork: Start by taking a few deep, slow breaths. Inhale for a count of four, hold for four, and exhale for four. This breathwork activates the parasympathetic nervous system, calming the mind and body.
Simple Meditation: Try grounding yourself by connecting with one of the ocean guides—maybe the sea turtle for grounding, the dolphin for playfulness, or the whale for deep wisdom. You can visualize yourself surrounded by the energy of the ocean and let it guide you into a peaceful, centered space.
Ocean Energy Healing Cards: These cards are designed to help you tap into the energy of the ocean and activate your intuitive flow. You can use them to set intentions, release stress and connect more deeply with your inner wisdom.
I believe you have the power to manifest from a place of deep alignment and inner peace. When you access that heart-centered energy - your natural state - you begin to move through life with more clarity, ease and confidence.
I’m here to support you on this journey. Through the rhythms of the ocean, intuitive energy work and grounded practices, I’ll help you reconnect to your inner wisdom so you can create what you truly desire - both in life and your soul-led work.
If this article was helpful for you, I’d love to know - let’s chat in the comments!
Stacy Stehle
Crystal Reiki Master & Spiritual Life Coach
